Love by Way of Chance
Love is one of the most precious and treasured feelings in
one's life. I feel love and affection should be used
carefully and under strong self-control. There are two ways
of falling in love. The first way, which is mostly admired,
is by way of chance. An example of chance is as follows: a
man and women are introduced to one another and make eye
contact. Then a certain feeling bonds the two, forming
love, which eventually will lead to an everlasting
marriage. The other way to fall in love is by choice. It
could be either the parent's choice or one of the couple's
choices. I feel that love by way of chance has a higher
percentage of a lasting marriage than does love by choice.
Love that occurs by chance is usually not because she or he
is pretty or smart, rather, it's a link of some sort, like
personalities or characteristics in common. Some people
might not like a stupid, fat, or repulsive looking mate,
but I feel it shouldn't depend on physical appearances.
Affection should be based on what's in the heart and
possibly the brain. The way I see it falling in love by way
of chance is the most beautiful feeling in the world.
Love by choice, especially not yours, is a horrible way to
live a life. It's hard for the one who didn't have the
choice. If one has to pick their husband or wife it should
not depend on their money status or their popularity, it
should be a careful decision that will make one happy for
the rest of their life. A good example that my classmates
and I could relate to, is the Hasidic world. Daughters and
sons are usually married off by their parents through a
deal at the ages of twelve and thirteen. They grow up
knowing whom they're going to marry for seven or eight
years having no say in the matter. They have to learn to
love their mate and I feel it's a miserable way to marry
someone and feel for that person.
I think that love by way of chance is a far more better way
to love someone than by way of choice. I feel that love is
the most beautiful feeling and that everyone should have a
chance to have a feeling of true love. I also advise that
before one is to marry, they should make sure it's true
love so they could have an eternal marriage.
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